I have heard many Speakers and messages on the topic of being Spirit-filled and Spirit-Controlled, but what does that look like to us in everyday life as Christians. I have had several conversations over the past week that leads me to believe that believers in general don’t understand how this is suppose to look. I’m not a theologian, but I will try to present several points that I believe are vital to the Christian walk being Spirit led. There several levels in my opinion to this process.
1. On a Personal Level - I remember when God showed me that I needed to deal with the resentments and anger that had built up in my life from childhood on and at times thinking to myself “I can’t do this think! It’s too much!” You see, all that past stuff was influencing my present behaviors. When stressed or confronted with conflict in any given situations, I would succumb to reacting in a retaliatory manor or I would withdraw in defeat and ruminate on how I would handle it differently the next time with the outcome being in my favor. My anger consumed my ever waking moments at times to the point it had grown to be a monster that I no longer had control of. Typical of our sin nature, it was always about me. My mind would race like a mouse in one of those cages that goes round and round, but never going anywhere. It was at this moment mentioned above when God said to me “You can’t do it! Give it to me!” I prayed and asked God to take it from me. After some resistance initially, I began sensing when that urge to attack would start to come over me and I would stop everything and beg God to take it from me. I was sick and tired of this cycle and I wanted victory. When I would do this, God would give me a verse “My grace is sufficient for you, in your weakness I am strong.”or a portion of scripture to reflect on until He gave me peace. This basic act of my will started changing me. I was consciously choosing to give the Holy Spirit control. This process is the foundation to becoming Spirit- filled and Spirit-led. It starts with small steps and gains momentum once you feel the serenity that only His Spirit can give you. It gave new meaning to “Come unto me ye who are heavy laden and I will give you rest.” I remember thinking ” I don’t have to do it. Jesus is is here with me.” Then I heard a term that I began repeating to myself when I would get stressed ”Practice the Presence of Jesus”. Remind yourself He is here with me. I remember coming home and my family would say “you have changed so much”. In my heart, I began saying thank you, Lord for changing me to be a better reflection of You.
2. In My Marriage and Family- then I got married and realized my “old nature” was trying to creep into my marriage. With close proximity and intimacy, new levels of intimate relations and spirit-led behaviors were being challenged. It was easier when it is just me to deal with. Now I was faced with dealing with “us”. I remember listening to Dr Dobson one day and hearing him talk about something I call the “triangle effect”. He said to visualize relational communication in your marriage as a triangle. Christ is at the top and the husband and wife are the base. If the husband and wife has an ongoing relationship with Christ, the distance between the husband and wife at the base will come closer and closer together as they each become more like Christ. The Holy Spirit is the agent of change in that as His Spirit convicts and instructs us individually, He also affects collectively. Which brings me to my last point.
3. In My Church- The scriptures refer to the church as being the Bride of Christ which He plans to return to take back to Heaven some day. In the same way relational communication occurs in a marriage, it also occurs in the Church. If Christ is the focal point of every believer in the same manner as the husband and wife are in the marriage mentioned above, then as we all become like Christ, become closer to each other. As we all begin to reflect the character of Christ, we become one in Spirit. A “Body” of believers who are looking for His Spirit to do a work in us individually and collectively. We become a functioning “Body” that he can use. His ability to use us as a body in our community is directly proportionate to our commitment to Him. We’ve been talking for sometime now about the feeling that God wants to do a special work in and through our church. I believe that will only happen if we all become sensitive to the Holy Spirit’s in each of our lives and let Him lead us which in turn affect everyone around us and in our neighborhood. They must see Jesus in me, and in you.
